{"id":5712,"date":"2023-11-30T08:10:05","date_gmt":"2023-11-30T15:10:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/?p=5712"},"modified":"2023-11-30T08:10:05","modified_gmt":"2023-11-30T15:10:05","slug":"piegate-aka-solandra-flower-essence-much-needed","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/?p=5712","title":{"rendered":"Piegate aka Solandra Flower Essence Much Needed"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Two days before Thanksgiving I began this blog with:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/solandra\">Solandra<\/a> bloomed this morning.  I felt like it was a kiss sent out to all the overworked folks out there getting ready to pause in already very busy lives to put on a complicated Thanksgiving feast.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/solandra\">Solandra<\/a> Flower Essence is all about reminding us we are lovable and loved because we exist not because of what we do. <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/solandra\">Solandra<\/a> reminds us we exist as love in an ocean of love and have nothing to prove.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2023\/11\/IMG_8681-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5715\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2023\/11\/IMG_8681-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2023\/11\/IMG_8681-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2023\/11\/IMG_8681-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2023\/11\/IMG_8681-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2023\/11\/IMG_8681-2048x1536.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, a week later, I wonder if I took this photo of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/solandra\">Solandra<\/a> but didn&#8217;t actually take her Flower Essence&#8230;..<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As I get back to this blog a <s>long<\/s> seven days later, I have <s>a bit of a snarky attitude<\/s> some thoughts.  Perhaps I am <s>need a radical attitude adjustment<\/s> <s>need the staff of Downton Abbey<\/s>  <s>need a time out in Fiji <\/s> need to go and visit with the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/solandra\">Solandra<\/a> blossoms out in the greenhouse again <s>drink a quart of Solandra Flower Essence water every day until the next holiday<\/s>, <s>go on strike and pitch a tent at Solandra&#8217;s side refusing to come out of the greenhouse unless someone else cooks<\/s>, so I have inner strength to tell next year&#8217;s <s>gathered hoards<\/s> guests <s>expecting five thousand different side dishes as well as their own bespoke pie that&#8230;&#8230;.<\/s><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Solandra said to <s>BACK OFF! <\/s> chill out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>As I reminisce about last week&#8217;s <s>over the top<\/s> holiday<s> feast <\/s> dinner, I know a few things <s>and feel a lot more<\/s>, A pie or two would have been enough. Did we really need a pumpkin pie, 3 (THREE) pecan pies, a cherry pie,  a chocolate cream pie, a banana cream pie and an apple pie? I think not. We were 22 gathered, not 220. Seven were children. Some ate nothing more than a squeeze pouch of applesauce. <s>Some of us should have only eaten a squeeze pouch of applesauce<\/s>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/solandra\">Solandra<\/a>! Help me learn how to give a hairy eyeball in the face of all special requests.  This was a look that my mother mastered so well that I still shudder to think of it.  Help me master her hairy eyeball so no one will ever again insist that every Thanksgiving needs a banana cream pie. If I master this look, everyone will be happy with one crappy store bought pumpkin pie as my siblings and I were during our childhood Thanksgivings <s>because they will be afraid to say otherwise.<\/s><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For goodness sake, my mother served peas, rice, crescent rolls from a tube and turkey at our Thanksgivings (complete menu), and we ENJOYED it.  Yes, I was thrilled when I discovered Jim&#8217;s family&#8217;s Thanksgiving meal included mashed potatoes, stuffing, yams and GRAVY, but would I have complained to my mother about our modest table? No! I was too afraid of her hairy eyeball.  My siblings and I could feel it across any crowded room. It was a laser beam that terrified. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>After this Thanksgiving, I wish her hairy eyeball was in my bag of tricks, How relaxing it would be if everyone ACTED as if they were enjoying a spread of turkey, peas and one solitary pie.  This would leave me <s>rested<\/s> <s>giddy<\/s> a<s>ble to leave the kitchen and go read a book<\/s> serene and grandmotherly <s>in some 1950&#8217;s type way<\/s>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Oh <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/solandra\">Solandra<\/a>, help me know I am a human being not a human doing and if you can, teach me all my mother knew about a well used hairy eyeball. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2023\/11\/IMG_8680-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5716\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2023\/11\/IMG_8680-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2023\/11\/IMG_8680-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2023\/11\/IMG_8680-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2023\/11\/IMG_8680-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2023\/11\/IMG_8680-2048x1536.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p> <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Two days before Thanksgiving I began this blog with: The Solandra bloomed this morning. I felt like it was a kiss sent out to all the overworked folks out there getting ready to pause in already very busy lives to put on a complicated Thanksgiving feast. Solandra Flower Essence is all about reminding us we &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/?p=5712\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Piegate aka Solandra Flower Essence Much Needed<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5712","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5712","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5712"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5712\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5718,"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5712\/revisions\/5718"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5712"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5712"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5712"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}