{"id":3185,"date":"2019-01-23T13:32:52","date_gmt":"2019-01-23T20:32:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/wordpress\/?p=3185"},"modified":"2019-01-24T06:06:51","modified_gmt":"2019-01-24T13:06:51","slug":"flower-essences-for-kindness-as-we-stumble","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/?p=3185","title":{"rendered":"Flower Essences for Kindness as We Stumble"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"text-decoration: line-through;\">WOW! It&#8217;s a nutty time! <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: line-through;\">To put it more diplomatically<\/span>\u00a0 We seek new paradigms for living on our dear planet and living with each other, <span style=\"text-decoration: line-through;\">because we need them ASAP<\/span>.\u00a0 The old structures <span style=\"text-decoration: line-through;\">are imploding<del>\u00a0 \u00a0<\/del>are being yanked away<\/span>\u00a0don\u2019t work, and like a toddler learning to take those first few steps without hand holding, we are lurching around, stumbling, banging into each other and in every way making the mistakes necessary to find a new way of being.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"text-decoration: line-through;\">Much as I wish it wasn\u2019t so,<\/span>\u00a0the stumbling is necessary. There is never any other way to learn than by trial and error, but this is particularly true now as we must find new ways of being without a lot of role models. The new paradigms are <strong>so<\/strong> different than anything that have gone before that the old problem solving tools are <span style=\"text-decoration: line-through;\">crap <\/span>not much help. <span style=\"text-decoration: line-through;\">Yes, I\u2019m talking about you, patriarchy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>In our toddlerhood there were hands to catch us as we took those first steps\u00a0<span style=\"text-decoration: line-through;\">\u00a0or at least I hope so<\/span>.\u00a0And now, as we stumble towards a new way of being, we have never been <strong>less alone<\/strong>.\u00a0 Divinity floods the planet with Light and Love, offering support unlike any time ever before. No exaggeration.\u00a0 I meet new Angels every day that are here to help us all. So really, there ARE hands ready to hold us up, and we can feel this rock like support if we <del>turn off our cell phones<\/del>\u00a0 go within and listen.<\/p>\n<p>We all hope for kindness as we stumble, both inner kindness and kindness from everyone else, and we find this kindness by making kindness our choice and opening to become the Light and Love being showered upon us. <span style=\"text-decoration: line-through;\">Yeah, I know this sounds trite but really, if we all tried this\u2026.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>We are going to <del>mess up<\/del> make many mistakes as we find new ways to live together harmoniously and new ways to take care of our ailing planet. The Light and Love of Divinity helps immeasurably, but we are still going to stumble.\u00a0 May we find the courage and strength and perspective to be gentle towards ourselves and each other as we stumble.<\/p>\n<p>Flowers show us how to soak up all this incoming Light and Love \u00a0and be kind. I never met a Flower that wasn\u2019t actively kind. <span style=\"text-decoration: line-through;\">I have never walked by a wildflower in a meadow or visited with a Dandelion in a parking lot and found it rude or honking its horn.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>If you read my last blog you know I am\u00a0<del> humbled by my unsuccessful efforts<\/del> \u00a0trying not to backbite. \u00a0It occurred to me yesterday as I picked myself up from yet another situation in which I should have said nothing, \u00a0that I have never heard a Flower EVER say anything negative about another Flower. EVER. \u00a0That really amazed me. And I have talked to a lot of Flowers. \u00a0They don&#8217;t even interrupt each other. \u00a0Flowers have to live with each other and often cede territory to each other, yet they never diminish themselves with unkind behavior. <del>No, I don&#8217;t think a Flower with an unpleasant fragrance counts.<\/del><\/p>\n<p>All this makes me look to the Flowers more than ever. \u00a0Each day in this uncharted territory, I awake and seek out Flower friends to help show me the way. Each day, they shimmer and shine and tell me and all of you who connect with them, \u201cYes, you can make this leap. You are doing it.\u201d\u00a0 And when\u00a0I stumble <span style=\"text-decoration: line-through;\">every day, ever hour every five minutes,<\/span>\u00a0they shower me with comforting love and kindness, help me dust myself off post stumble \u00a0and offer gentle encouragement how to be more kind to myself and others.<\/p>\n<p>I want us all to succeed in the wobbly trip across this bewildering new territory on our toddler feet. It&#8217;s a fantastic gig to be here now but really hard. May we all be forgiving as we stumble into each other. May we all see the best in each other. May we all be as kind to each other as a bouquet of our favorite Flowers delivered to our door.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/wordpress\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/IMG_0919.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-3190 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/wordpress\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/IMG_0919-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"474\" height=\"356\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/IMG_0919-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/IMG_0919-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/IMG_0919-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 474px) 100vw, 474px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>FLOWER ESSENCES FOR KINDNESS AS WE STUMBLE<\/strong> \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0Yes, all Flowers help us with kindness but here are some single and combination Flower Essences that jumped at the chance to offer themselves today to you. <del>Okay, so ALOT jumped at the chance to support you! No worries. They&#8217;ll be kind if you just say no thanks.<\/del><\/p>\n<p><em>Seeing ourselves and others as the Angels see us versus as our personalities sees us:\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/through-angels-eyes\">Through Angels\u2019 Eyes<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/eyes-of-mary\">Eyes of Mary<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/love-prevails\">Love Prevails<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/love-it-and-leave-it\">Love it and Leave it<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/dont-worry-bee-happy\">Don\u2019t Worry-Bee Happy<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Finding a loving view of self and other that melts the cloud of unforgiveness hanging over us:: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/buddleja\">Buddleja<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/peach\">Peach<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/meadowsweet\">Meadowsweet<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/hardhack\">Hardhack<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Release from habitual patterns of judgment: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/carry-less\">Carry Less<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/all-ego-contracts-null-and-void\">All Ego Contracts Null &amp; Void<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/wild-rose\">Wild Rose<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/crab-apple\">Crab Apple<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Release from shame spirals: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/konigin-von-danemark-rose\">Konigin von Danemark Rose<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Kindness towards self: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/heliotrope\">Heliotrope<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/buddleja\">Buddleja<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/meadowsweet\">Meadowsweet<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/hardhack\">Hardhack<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/eyes-of-mary\">Eyes of Mary<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Listening to your own body with kindness: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/hontanas\">Hontanas<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/wordpress\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/IMG_2050.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-3192 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/wordpress\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/IMG_2050-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"474\" height=\"632\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/IMG_2050-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/IMG_2050-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 474px) 100vw, 474px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Finding the bead on love in difficult situations: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/rose-campion\">Rose Campion<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/wild-pink-morning-glory\">Wild Pink Morning Glory<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Confidence that humanity is evolving in a matrix of eternal love: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/climbing-new-dawn-rose\">Climbing New Dawn Rose<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Hearing each other in an new way and \u00a0with kindness:\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/french-marigold\">French Marigold<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Self-acceptance and self love:\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/pine\">Pine<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Knowing your value even when no one seems to see you: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/true-wood-sorrel\">True Wood Sorrel<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/dwarf-common-centaury\">Dwarf, Common Centaury<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Knowing your sweetness is a strength not a weakness: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/dwarf-common-centaury\">Dwarf Common Centaury<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Knowing only God defines you: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/maple\">Maple<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Yup there really is Love and Divinity in everyone:\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/agnes-rose\">Agnes Rose<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/arbor-garden\">Arbor Garden<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/peach\">Peach<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/wordpress\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/P1010027.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-3194\" src=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/wordpress\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/P1010027.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"3072\" height=\"2304\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/P1010027.jpg 3072w, https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/P1010027-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/P1010027-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/P1010027-1024x768.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 3072px) 100vw, 3072px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Having a true accounting of your strengths: <\/em> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/maple\">Maple<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/cretan-viper-grass-from-prevali-crete\">Cretan Viper Grass<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Letting go of the niggling feeling you are not enough: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/common-knapweed\">Common Knapweed<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Self-esteem for teenagers: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/common-scurvygrass\">Common Scurvygrass<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Help to ease up on the self criticism so you open to receive more love: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/meadowsweet\">Meadowsweet<\/a><\/em>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/pine\">Pine<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Finding your self-esteem after traumatic experiences: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/fremont-pincushion\">Fremont Pincushion<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Validation that selfless actions of caretaking matter:\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/henbit-deadnettle-from-balos-crete\">Henbit Deadnettle<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Letting go of self-loathing:\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/all-ego-contracts-null-and-void\">All Ego Contracts Null &amp; Void,<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/mary-queen-of-scots-rose\">Mary Queen of Scots Rose<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/crab-apple\">Crab Apple,<\/a> \u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/sneezeweed\">Sneezeweed<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>No more playing those negative tapes: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/pennyroyal\">Pennyroyal<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Knowing ourselves to have been born one with Divinity with our infinite imperishable worth never anything but a truth of this Divine oneness: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/about-the-crete-flower-essences\">The Flower Essences from Crete<\/a><em>( listed in the Mediterranean collection) <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Knowing your value beyond personality or cultural ideas of success:\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/ginger\">Ginger<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Unwavering sense of your own value no matter who steps on you: <\/em><a href=\"http:\/\/Fremont Pincushion\">Fremont Pincushion<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/wintergreen\">Wintergreen<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Knowing your own strength and worth as a woman: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/wild-red-morning-glory\">Wild Red Morning Glory<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/the-sacred-feminine\">The Sacred Feminine<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/the-sacred-feminine\">Pomegranate<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/wordpress\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/IMG_5170.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-3193 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/wordpress\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/IMG_5170-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"474\" height=\"356\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/IMG_5170-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/IMG_5170-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/IMG_5170-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 474px) 100vw, 474px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Restoring self-worth after betrayal:\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/calliandra-from-taiwan\">Calliandra from Taiwan<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Knowing you are enough: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/common-knapweed\">Common Knapweed<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Moving through the world with both kindness and appropriateness: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/alpine-forget-me-not\">Alpine Forget-Me-Not<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Living like a honeybee in equality, consensus, generosity, loving kindness and JOY: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/hairy-thorny-broom-from-stavros-crete\">Hairy Thorny Broom<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Support for those who live to love with a vast generosity of loving kindness:\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/pink-rock-rose-from-stavros-crete\">Pink Rock Rose<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Finding the inner kindness to listen to your body with tenderness: <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/hontanas\">Hontanas<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Clear the heart of old hates and bitterness:\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/sow-thistle\">Sow Thistle<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Kindness to others no matter where they are on their spiritual path:\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/galicia\">Galicia<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/rabanal\">Rabanal<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>The strength to stay present in the face of other\u2019s suffering:\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/white-chestnut\">White Chestnut<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/wordpress\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/IMG_2055.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-3191 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/wordpress\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/IMG_2055-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"474\" height=\"356\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/IMG_2055-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/IMG_2055-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/wp-contents\/upload\/2019\/01\/IMG_2055-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 474px) 100vw, 474px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>PS Posted this yesterday but failed to mention a new Flower Essence combination <a href=\"https:\/\/www.greenhopeessences.com\/essences\/enhancing-empathy\">\u00a0Enhancing Empathy<\/a> that a lovely psychotherapist in Manhattan asked us to make to support open hearted kindness. This mix was the inspiration for this blog but heck, I stumbled and forgot! \u00a0I&#8217;m learning what matters is not that we stumble but that we pick ourselves up and keep going!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>WOW! It&#8217;s a nutty time! To put it more diplomatically\u00a0 We seek new paradigms for living on our dear planet and living with each other, because we need them ASAP.\u00a0 The old structures are imploding\u00a0 \u00a0are being yanked away\u00a0don\u2019t work, and like a toddler learning to take those first few steps without hand holding, we &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/?p=3185\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Flower Essences for Kindness as We Stumble<\/span> <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3185","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3185","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3185"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3185\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3197,"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3185\/revisions\/3197"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3185"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3185"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.greenhopeessences.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3185"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}